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The past few months have been a wild ride to say the least. Due to COVID-19, most of us have been stuck at home for several weeks now. Although time has went by in a weird haze, I feel like it’s been very important to try and utilize it as much as possible. Let’s be honest: I don’t think any of us wanted to be stuck at home for months on end, however, I’ve somehow found a way to thrive in all of this free time. Before going any further, I feel the need to say that in no way am I trying to downplay or make light this pandemic. Thankfully, I have been safe and healthy during this trying time and for that, I’m very thankful. I’ve taken this opportunity to focus on bettering myself, and I hope that others have been able to do the same. Here’s what I’ve been doing:

I’ve really tried my best to use the last several weeks to reset and recharge my mind. I feel like I’ve really been able to take a step back and focus on all the things I should be thankful for. I haven’t always had the most positive mindset, and I’m definitely not saying that I do now, but one thing I’ve learned is that there’s no point in spending all your time worrying about the negatives. While the circumstances around it are terrible, I honestly am very thankful that I was given this time to work on myself. Mentally, I’ve had a lot of ups and downs over the last few years and being able to step back and focus on myself and what I need has really been such a blessing.

From time to time, it’s important to analyze where you’re at in life. During my quarantine, I’ve really gotten the chance look at the bigger picture. I’ve learned a lot about myself, and have realized that I’ve spent the last few years being very stagnant in life. While I’m very fortunate to be able to say I’m comfortable with where I am, there’s no growth with things that stay the same. Life is too short to settle for ‘doing well’, when you have all of the opportunity to thrive. I’ve been thinking of several ways in which I can better myself, and look forward to putting them into action once the real world starts up again!

I’m very proud to say that I’ve been able to stick to my health goals during quarantine. I’ve lost 10 pounds and several inches! Since I can’t remember the last time I wore a pair of jeans, I have been measuring myself by wedding dress sizes (this is what years of working in the bridal industry will do to you) and have lost 2 dress sizes since the end of February! I’ve been exercising every day (shout out to Peloton), and have been able to stick to a healthier diet. In the past, I’ve tried it all: Keto, counting calories, WW – and what’s been working for me is actually so simple: just being more mindful with the meals I’m eating. It’s been so easy to stick with and I know I’ll continue once quarantine is over.

So fun fact: my husband and I really don’t get to spend that much time together. During this quarantine, this is actually the most nights in a row that we’ve gotten to spend together in our 3.5 years of marriage. Crazy, right? I’ve really appreciated having this time together and I’m not gonna lie: I’m really, really going to miss it when it’s gone. Whether it’s your spouse, your kids, your parents – try your best to enjoy time with the ones that mean the most to you. This has been a great time to focus on the relationships you have in your life. And yes, you can work on them while social distancing as well. I’ve been taking the time to reach out to family, old friends, and just have conversations. In a time of isolation, it’s important to keep connections strong!

I just want to finish this off with the need to say, once again, that in no way am I trying to downplay or make light this pandemic. COVID-19 has been a traumatic time for so many people, including myself. Facing the unknown is frightening, especially when it comes to a sickness that has affected so many people. All I’m trying to do is bring a little bit of positivity out of a terrible situation. While restrictions are lifting in some areas, they are continuing to stay in place for others. Stay safe, stay healthy, and try to stay positive! Here’s to hoping that the world can go back to normal soon.



  1. I’ve been thriving by giving myself the space and freedom to not feel ok. It’s ok to not feel ok at time as long as you don’t dwell in that feeling.


  2. I’ve been struggling recently with striving. When this all started I kept myself extremely busy, but not I’m lacking the motivation to do things. I have been working on my mental health and physical health so that’s a plus. Love these tips.


  3. This is a great post! I’ve been working a lot on my mental and physical health, but have been lacking in setting goals recently. These are great tips.


  4. I think you are correct in suggesting that people focus on both mental and physical health. Under these conditions, people could go stir crazy.


  5. Such a lovely tips especially the PRIORITIZE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH because we stay at home so the anxiety will always kill us!


  6. This time of difficulty, I am just grateful that I am with my family. They are everything to me.


  7. We really need these while we are facing a very challenging moment. All we can do now is stay positive, even just for the sake of our loved ones.


  8. I agree with all these specially focusing on physical health. We need to boost our immune system to shrug off potential viruses that may come our way, especially COVID-19.


  9. I’ve found that lockdown has done wonders for my relationship with my partner. We are getting on better than ever. It’s nice to spend time with loved ones you take for granted.
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  10. As you said “PRIORITIZE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH” is everything! If we live well, our body can make it. But we need fresh air, sun and no stress. Great article!


  11. These are some great ways. But there’s nothing good in prioritizing our mental health. We need to take care of our health and boost our immune system, very well.


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